Thursday, July 30, 2009

How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

I change my hair alot- braids, extensions, whatever....



I'm used to people complimenting me on my hair and that's fine. I appreciate it. But asking me over and over within a 8 hour span is a bit much. If you like my hair, great but i don't feel like I have to tell you everything i do with my hair. Sometimes you have to keep em guessin, and my co-worker can't take the hint.



How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

when they ask, politely smile and say very vaguely, 'oh, you know, a little brushing here, a little hair gel there ... i like to experiment.' and then tell them you need to make an urgent call or that you've a backlog and leave. if they keep annoying you, just tell them your tricks are your secrets, and they need to keep guessing!



How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

Just tell her that you would tell her but then you'd have to kill her



How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

thank her for the compliment the first time. if she asks you how you did it or what you did to it, tell her that "a woman can't reveal all of her beauty secrets." If it continues, politely explain to her that you have work to do, and her interruptions are making you unproductive.



How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

If you want to get right to the point, you can tell your co- worker, "I don't comment on your hair, so quit commenting on mine". That can come off as a little rude, but hopefully she'll get the point.



How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

When your co-worker comes around try to act very busy. And when they ask about it say that you have a lot of work to do and you don't have the time right now to explain it. Hopefully after a while she will take a hint, and its not really being rude if you are working.



How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

Your hair must look nice to always be receiving complement's, I mean that is part of the reason why we all keep ourselves looking nice, to be perceived by people in a certain way, so you cant really bash anyone for liking what they see and wanting more information on it. But if you get overwhelmed you can simply say you would love to discuss the hair ideas and creations you have after work or during lunch. Just remind your co-worker that you would like to keep the work place professional and you can talk about what ever after hours. Your co-workers should respect you and your request.



How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

No matter what this person says, reply with "Thanks," even if they ask you a question. As you repeat this reply, you are allowed to sound more and more uninterested in the conversation, perhaps adding a pained smile.



You can also say, "Thanks, I have to get back to work."



They will get the hint, especially if you say the same thing over and over and over again.



Good luck!



How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

Say you got your hair did the way you wanted it did and for her to stop asking you questions about it. Then maybe recommend your hair stylist to her.



How do I tell a co-worker that how I do my hair is my business and mine alone?

Never answer these questions.



Always respond to any comment on your hair with "Thank you!"



It will drive the person crazy.

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